I’ve talked to countless couples over the years and there is one specific problem/situation that I have seen repeat itself many times. Here’s the scenario:

  • Husband tells wife about his desires to be in this lifestyle

  • After a period of time wife agrees to explore

  • Husband has “script” in his mind about the type of hotwife his wife will be

  • Wife’s primary goal in the beginning is to make her husband happy because she loves him and because she hasn’t fully taken ownership of her desire to be in this lifestyle

  • Husband gets frustrated when wife doesn’t do things according to his “script”

  • Wife often gets resentful at this point because her husband makes her feel unappreciated

I want to hear from couples who have experienced this and more specifically, couples who were able to work through it. I know there are many couples out there who are still struggling with this very scenario and your stories could be of great help to them.


You have 2 ways to submit your story. You can message me or you can use this to record a message. 

I just want to say thank you to anyone who has decided to lend their story to help others navigate this very real problem.

Your Host, Michael C.